the saddest thing about homestuck ending is that we probably won’t ever get answers to some things
why was john’s neighborhood empty?
what about the pre-scratch beta trolls?
why did john’s dad get banned from cirque du soleil
This is my son, Chester, who is nearly 4. He was invited to his friend Chloe’s birthday party today, the theme was prince and princesses. He asked if he could go as Sleeping Beauty, so I bought him a dress and put a cute little clip in his hair.
We arrived at the party to the following comments from the adults present:
“Oh that is just cruel.”
"Why did you make him wear a dress?"
"Poor little man, what’s your mummy playing at?"
"He’s going to hate you when he grows up."
"No way I’d let my son dress like a girl."
The fact is, Chester is almost completely gender neutral. I let him wear what he wants, be it boys or girls clothes, and he plays with whatever toys he likes. This usually involves him holding tea parties while wearing his pink Minnie Mouse top, jeans and a tiara. The guests are more often than not a mixture of Winnie The Pooh characters, dinosaurs, Barbie, Dora and solders, and they’re usually transported in his favorite fire engine.
When my husband arrived at the party later on, he was subjected to endless ridicule from the other dad’s present about how I must keep his balls in my back pocket because otherwise he would have put his foot down and not allowed Chester out like that. Oh, and by the way, our other son dressed as Ariel. When my husband pointed out that the boys were happy, and the mother of the birthday child made a point of saying how wonderful she thought it was that we allowed them freedom of choice and expression, they then stopped talking about it to our faces and started muttering about us behind our backs.
Interestingly enough, not a single child said a word about their choice of costumes, other than to compliment Chester on his new dress.
Wow. This changes my views about her.
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO PUTS IT INTO WORDS
YES! I SHARE THESE FEELS, I’M SO GLAD I’M NOT ALONE!
she does at like a 12 year old I NEVER REALIZED THIS
THESE ARE AMAZING POINTS WOW KUDOS
… Also, I can’t help thinking maybe going “Hm, I guess they didn’t like me a much as I did them, I wasted my time and will now learn from this so I can find someone who really does appreciate me” would be more helpful than “You’re a small man, you missed your best chance, now it’s over and I don’t need you”. Um… get over yourself, for fucks sake. They apparently never even had to since they didn’t really like you as much or in the same way, so what’s your damage? Get some perspective after you pull your head out of your arse or at least pay someone to do it, you made 17 million dollars in a fucking year, go to Cancun for a month, focus on your own happiness and chill the fuck out.
taylor swift is fucking yandere